Spicy 101: Up the Bum 101
July 7th 7:00pm - 9:00pm ∙ Columbus, OH
Spicy 101: Up the Bum 101
Playing with the backdoor can be overwhelming. There are a whole new list of “best practices” to learn – and that’s before you deal with the stereotypes that it has to hurt. (spoiler: it doesn’t!)
Join us as we talk about everything backdoor – and we mean everything. From minimizing mess to step-by-step instructions to your first “back there” experience, we’re covering it all. We’ll also be talking about lube types, safety, toys to make things easier, and some great tips for making this new erogenous zone feel absolutely amazing, whether playing solo or with others.
Everybody’s got one! Let’s talk about how to make it awesome.
About the Educator
Mistress Kay has a fondness for all things sexual. With a house that’s quickly running out of room for all of her reading and vibrating pleasures, she spends her free time reading, writing, and learning about the sexual, femdom and BDSM universe with her partners.
That knowledge translates into a dayjob teaching sex, femdom, and BDSM, photography specializing in boudoir and kink, and her educational website, Kinky World, which has been providing free online BDSM education for over 17 years.
Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/Mistress_Kay
Twitter: https://x.com/mistress_kay
Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/kinky-world.bsky.social
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIFfwBKXU7vu37fYRgYUB0Q
Spicy 101 – 2026 Series: Presented by Mistress Kay, Hosted by Autonomy Project at Wicked Eden.
Please stay tuned for future dates, hosted monthly on Tuesdays.
January 13, 2026: How to be a Great Dominant / Top AND Find a PartnerFebruary 24, 2026: How to be a Great Submissive / Bottom AND Find a PartnerMarch 31, 2026: Basics of Consent and NegotiationApril 14, 2026: Getting Kinky on a BudgetMay 19, 2026: Beginner Bondage 101
June 2, 2026: Mixing Pain with Pleasure- July 7, 2026: Up the Bum 101 – and – THURSDAY July 30, 2026 (Bonus – Members Only Event): Anal Stretching 101
- August: Exploring Your Kink Side by Yourself
- September: Navigating the World of Kink as a Couple
- October: How to Get Involved in the Kink Community
- November: Creating a Scene from A to Z
- December: Keeping Intimacy Private in Close-Quarters Living
Open to people of all experience and skill levels! Attend all of the Spicy 101 classes to flush out your kinky education.
DETAILS
📅 Date: July 7th
⏰ Time: Doors Open at 7:00 pm, Class from 7:30pm to 9:00 pm
📍 Location: Wicked Eden, 2912 South High ST, Columbus Ohio 43207
Door tickets available if event does not sell out.
WHAT WE’LL HAVE FOR YOU!
Drinks & Snacks! Our Merch shop will be open (at almost all events) with a variety of sodas and refreshments to keep you going. Our signature t-shirts and stickers are often out as well if you feel like browsing.
Comfy Spots! Places to sit and chill – floor pillows or relaxing chairs. No shoes required (but you do you, boo).
New friends! Honestly, the main attraction.
Empowerment in education! We provide educational offerings that are fundamentally anti-racist, anti-colonial, and aimed to provide knowledge that arms you for living.
ticket Details:
DRESS CODE
When it comes to attire, anything goes at Wicked Eden, we want you to feel comfortable and in the mood to have an adventure! Wicked Eden is a place where you can wear as much or as little as you desire. We want you to always feel comfortable expressing yourself in whatever ways you desire. We encourage you to go outside your comfort zone with festive, outrageous, or amazing clothing that you never get a chance to wear anywhere else.
VOLUNTEERS
We LOVE volunteers! Join our team of community volunteers, and you will find new friends, a support system and a tight knit center of empowerment. Once you have obtained membership as above, please check out the volunteering section of The Autonomy Project website.
By volunteering with us you will have the opportunity to make a meaningful impact on people’s lives, but you will also get perks such as discounted or free access to our events and classes, and most importantly, collaborative input in what we do here. Your ideas are important to us, and as a volunteer, we want you to feel like you’re part of our community: one that celebrates who you are and supports your journey.
HIGH POTENTIAL, NO PRESSURES
Our community thrives in a space where countless delightful interactions could happen, but none are obligated to occur. Think of it as “high possibility, low expectations.” Outside of our general requirements of respect, you are under no obligation to interact with anyone in any particular way. This makes our space ideal for new faces and seasoned community members alike.
HIGH POTENTIAL, NO PRESSURES
Our events aren’t the product of one person hosting a party for pay; they’re the result of a community coming together and creating something new. Everyone who attends is expected to co-create: money, time, energy, enthusiasm, work, intention, example, concern and/or awareness. Have ideas, games, art, music to share? Want to bring them to life with us?
A FOUNDATION OF TRUST
Our gatherings are magical because of trust. We fiercely protect each member’s privacy, encourage honest risk communication, and take diligent care of our shared environments. It’s our collective respect and integrity that fortify this safe space.
CLEAR AND PRESENT CONSENT
Upholding consent goes beyond preventing harm; it’s about affirming everyone’s freedom to fully and joyfully agree to their interactions. It’s through this affirmation that our spaces thrive with genuine, unreserved participation.
INCLUSION AND DIVERSITY
We’re committed to inclusivity. Our community is a tapestry of individuals from diverse racial, ethnic, and social backgrounds, including all gender identities and expressions. We encourage everyone to engage with empathy and curiosity, always asking rather than assuming someone’s identity or preferences.
Our space is and always will be wheelchair accessible, with multiple spaces for varying sensory needs.
PLEASE NOTE:
No refunds will be given on ticket purchases. Address is provided to confirmed ticket holders after purchase. Wicked Eden is located on the south side of Columbus, approximately 10 minutes from downtown, and is one block away from a COTA bus stop.
ABOUT US
Wicked Eden is operated by The Autonomy Project, a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization dedicated to education, community building, and empowerment for individuals within the alternative sexuality community, sex work industry, and the LGBTQIA+ community. Our mission is to create a safe and inclusive space where individuals can freely express their sexuality and gender identity without fear of discrimination, judgment, or violence.