Friend or Flame: Queer Speed Dating/Friending Event
Nov. 9th 7:30pm - 11:00pm ∙ Columbus, OH
Summary
Description
At the Autonomy Project, Schrödinger’s Queer Kinkster is a thought experiment concerning sexual superposition. In this thought experiment, a hypothetical queer kinkster may be considered simultaneously both a friend AND a flame. Only through flirting with the queer kinkster can the true nature of the queer kinkster be observed.
We are calling for subjects to take part in this important experiment. For science, you see? Come. Meet queer kinksters and polyamorous friends (or flames). Drink. Flirt. Make speed-connections. Play icebreaker games. Get new phone numbers. Maybe go home with new play partners. Still for science. We’ll see you there!
Friend Or Flame is a 21+ event with booze, snacks, and non-alcoholic drinks for purchase. It’s open to both members and non-members, and is fully inclusive of all genders, relationship styles, and sexualities — but the vibe, as with all our events, will be exceedingly queer. 🌈 Dress as your most authentic self, whether you’re feeling fun, flamboyant, casual, or chill. Your ideal person(s) will get you no matter what you wear.
Important Deets!
📅 Date: November 9th
⏰ Time: 7:30 pm to 11:00 pm
📍 Location: Wicked Eden, 2912 South High ST, Columbus Ohio 43207
Tickets must be purchased in advance, no ticket sales at the door.
WHAT WE’LL HAVE FOR YOU!
Drinks! The bar will be open with a variety of sodas and mocktails to quench your thirst!
Snacks! When the urge to snack hits you, we’ve got you covered! As always, our signature merch is always available!
Comfy Spots! Places to sit and chill! Floor Pillows! Relaxing chairs. No shoes required (but you do you, boo)
New friends! We’re the coolest spot in the city and it’s all because of the cool folks that call this place home.
TICKETS
Tickets to our events are always available at https://www.autonomyproject.org/. While buying your ticket weeks ahead of time won’t always be necessary, we never want you to miss out on an event because you didn’t reserve your spot in time. Our events often fill up quickly and we don’t always have tickets available for purchase closer to the event. We always recommend you buy your ticket as soon as you decide you’d like to attend an event to avoid any disappointment.
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DRESS CODE
When it comes to attire, anything goes at Wicked Eden, we want you to feel comfortable and in the mood to have an adventure! Wicked Eden is a place where you can wear as much or as little as you desire. We want you to always feel comfortable expressing yourself in whatever ways you desire. We encourage you to go outside your comfort zone with festive, outrageous, or amazing clothing that you never get a chance to wear anywhere else.
VOLUNTEERS
We LOVE volunteers! Join our team of community volunteers, and you will find new friends, a support system and a tight knit center of empowerment. Once you have obtained membership as above, please check out the volunteering section of The Autonomy Project website.
By volunteering with us you will have the opportunity to make a meaningful impact on people’s lives, but you will also get perks such as discounted or free access to our events and classes, and most importantly, collaborative input in what we do here. Your ideas are important to us, and as a volunteer, we want you to feel like you’re part of our community: one that celebrates who you are and supports your journey.
HIGH POTENTIAL, NO PRESSURES
Our community thrives in a space where countless delightful interactions could happen, but none are obligated to occur. Think of it as “high possibility, low expectations.” Outside of our general requirements of respect, you are under no obligation to interact with anyone in any particular way. This makes our space ideal for new faces and seasoned community members alike.
HIGH POTENTIAL, NO PRESSURES
Our events aren’t the product of one person hosting a party for pay; they’re the result of a community coming together and creating something new. Everyone who attends is expected to co-create: money, time, energy, enthusiasm, work, intention, example, concern and/or awareness. Have ideas, games, art, music to share? Want to bring them to life with us?
A FOUNDATION OF TRUST
Our gatherings are magical because of trust. We fiercely protect each member’s privacy, encourage honest risk communication, and take diligent care of our shared environments. It’s our collective respect and integrity that fortify this safe space.
CLEAR AND PRESENT CONSENT
Upholding consent goes beyond preventing harm; it’s about affirming everyone’s freedom to fully and joyfully agree to their interactions. It’s through this affirmation that our spaces thrive with genuine, unreserved participation.
INCLUSION AND DIVERSITY
We’re committed to inclusivity. Our community is a tapestry of individuals from diverse racial, ethnic, and social backgrounds, including all gender identities and expressions. We encourage everyone to engage with empathy and curiosity, always asking rather than assuming someone’s identity or preferences.
Our space is and always will be wheelchair accessible, with multiple spaces for varying sensory needs.
PLEASE NOTE:
No refunds will be given on ticket purchases. Address is provided to confirmed ticket holders after purchase. Wicked Eden is located on the south side of Columbus, approximately 10 minutes from downtown, and is one block away from a COTA bus stop.
ABOUT US
Wicked Eden is operated by The Autonomy Project, a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization dedicated to education, community building, and empowerment for individuals within the alternative sexuality community, sex work industry, and the LGBTQIA+ community. Our mission is to create a safe and inclusive space where individuals can freely express their sexuality and gender identity without fear of discrimination, judgment, or violence.